swildman18: Not doubting your bad dealer experience (I'm in Texas, so nowhere near Minnesota). Lack of communication from dealers is quite common, as you've probably noticed on this thread. FWIW, my dealer was never able to tell me my place in line. That said, I ordered an SX on January 10, was quoted 4 to 6 months wait time, and will probably pick up my vehicle in early June... so 5 months was spot-on.
As others have mentioned on this thread, order wait times are driven by numerous factors... not the least of which is the trim level you ordered. SX trims are the highest volume (and as a result, get filled more quickly), so if you ordered an LX, S, or EX the wait time may be substantially longer (even than what you were quoted). If you haven't already, I'd suggest looking-up your dealer in Failcat and reviewing how many of each trim level they have filled each month. If you (through some miracle) can get info on how many orders they have in queue, that might give you a sense for how much longer you may have to wait.
Good luck!