I drove an AWD limited
Palisade today. In my opinion, the big difference between the two is luxury vs. utility. The
Palisade's interior was clearly designed with luxury in mind. The mirror thing doesn't bother me. The push-button shifter is a little strange to get used to, but not a deal breaker. It rides very smooth and would be super comfy on long road trips.
But fully loaded, you get just a touch more with the
Palisade, including the digital cluster, power reclining third row and the self-leveling rear shocks already added.
It comes down to a truly subjective decision, and none are wrong. We're all different. You can watch reviews till you're blue in the face, but in the end, it's whatever works best for your taste and need.
I don't have kids and I've owned a few SUV's in the past for utility, the last being an Explorer. So I'm in "luxury" phase. For me, it's going to depend on availability and pricing in a few months, which is when I'll need to purchase. And either one would be a good choice for me, as they're truly both great vehicles.