My issue here is, how am I saying it only affects ME? I'm venting, ON A FORUM, about the car buying process that is affecting everyone. I've studied the forum, contacted a lot of the suggested dealers, only to find that the information is incorrect or no longer relevant. Example, you JUST mentioned Nutley Kia. Nutley will ONLY sell in you are in their "local market." If people "read the forums," like they accused me of not doing, they would see that I posted that a while ago. Or MAYBE, it's hard to catch every single post on a thousand thread forum. hmmmm...
Ol' panties in a bunch Hangfire up there actually clued me in to what I think the problem is; he basically called me poor, but I think the issue is that some people like him, are willing to overspend 20k on a depreciating asset, which is exactly how one becomes poor in the first place. So, I'll leave the terrible business decisions to people like him and his ilk. I currently drive a Mercedes; I can handle a KIA TELLURIDE PAYMENT, thank you very much, but why would I pay 60k for a car that is 43k, that will be 38k when I drive it around the block. (yeah, yeah, current market that's not the case.....etc, etc....it WILL correct.)
Bottom line, I'm actually a little taken back at how snippy and rude a bunch of people got because I'm frustrated with an objectively frustrating process. When I signed up, I got a message from the webmaster stating that it was a respectful place, but I got met with personal attacks because I said that I was frustrated at how insane this process is.
But, I see I'm totally in the wrong place, and will take my constant "bitching and whining" elsewhere.
Thanks to the people that were informative, helpful and respectful. Eat a you know what to the ones that weren't.