I know you have no glimpse of how much I appreciate your contributions, quite insightful.
Everyday I learn and be more knowledgeable about things I do not have much knowledge about. Experience is the best teacher, so they say. So scratch out being a jerk/ruining the fun, as you've mentioned. I did some calculations based on those estimates, realized at the end of longer term, I tend to pay over $10,000. Time will surely tell especially when the car ordered arrives, then i would weigh out all options, offers, incentives available at the time, then a final decision would be made. No rushing regardless how bad I want the car, or how much love I have for the car.
Once again, thank you and I'm always glad being a part/member of this awesome forum.